There are many myths and illusions about sex that people harbor given the incomplete information on the subject. Such misconceptions only lead to a unsatisfied sexual life and hindrances in enjoying the sexual pleasures to the fullest. Mentioned under are the top five sex myths clarified and busted with supportive facts and information.
PENETRATION IS THE SOLE PURPOSE OF SEX
Enjoying sex is about enjoying the phase from foreplay to penetration. Most often people consider penetration as the sole goal of sex and thus, lose interest in it the whole act. Two partners can enjoy the sexual pleasures to the fullest when they enjoy each and every moment of intimacy passed between them is relished thoroughly.
ERECTION MEAN SAME AS SEXUAL AROUSAL
The terms 'sexual arousal' and 'erection' are often mistaken o be as same but, in actuality both these terms are way different from each other. Sexual arousal is purely in context to emotional, physiological and visual response of an individual. Sexual arousal does not always conclude to a sexual act as most of the times it involve idiosyncratic ideas and bizarre choices. Erection the other hand, it the physical reaction of a male body. Men can have varying degree of erections to different thoughts and feelings. An erection does not indicate any actual sexual arousal in men.
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PREMATURE EJACULATION IS UNMANLY
Many men are conscious and worried about early ejaculation though, one need not to be panicky about it. Its only natural to have ejaculation as and when it happens. In the absence of actual facts and enough information, men end up taking a negative approach towards solving this issue by distracting themselves with non-sexual thoughts. At times men also develop a feeling of disassociation and distance from their partner. Practices like these can only harm a relationship rather than doing any good.
It is very important for an individual to be emotionally present during the act hence, one should steer clear of all the inhibitions or notions regarding ejaculation or any other issue while making love. The appropriate way of managing a man's anxiety regarding his performance is by talking to him about it. The partners can indulge in some constructive discussion about it and get rid of such inhibitions. Tantric sex exploration is another effective way of learning the techniques to control ejaculation.
GOOD LOOKING PEOPLE HAVE BETTER SEX
It is rather foolish to have an opinion that beautiful people have better sex. Sex begins in brain and practically it has got nothing to do with the physical appearance. Sex can be a disaster if you keep comparing yourself with the people more beautiful than you.
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